April 6, 2012

Climate Change or Consciousness Change?

I got involved in an online discussion ostensibly about climate change, whether it's real or not, etc. the other day and offered a couple of posts to that discussion that I thought I'd repeat here since the theme of interconnectedness ran fairly strongly through them.  Any time someone wants to debate the validity of global warming I end up feeling like they're missing the point.  So I offer this as a possible alternate way of approaching the issue, and other related issues dealing with the various major changes we're now in as a society and a planet...


The simple fact of the matter is that the world is changing. Rapidly. And for the worse in a lot of ways. It's changing physically, socially, economically, and in just about any other way you can define, at a pace we haven't experienced before. We all know it. We all feel it, see it, sense it, experience it, and are unsettled by it. It's changing in ways that threaten the lives and well being of virtually every creature on the planet to one degree or another, and those degrees (no global warming pun intended) are only going to keep ratcheting upward as long as all we do is sit here arguing with each other about whether it's really happening and who or what's responsible for it.

Change is unsettling, especially big change and change we aren't in full control of or don't really understand. And I think there is a large subset of the population that, when faced with such conditions, wants to beat a hasty and fear-driven retreat back to the old days, the old ways, when we couldn't see where the road was leading yet so it was okay to remain on it. It's a natural response, but it's one that we can't afford to indulge in now I think.

We are into the 6th mass extinction in the history of life on this planet now, and the first caused by man. That in and of itself should be indication enough that we can't keep proceeding down, or retreating down, the well-worn path of ever-increasing mass consumption and environmentally destructive fossil fuel-based energy production. Have our lifestyle and energy consumption choices had an effect on this situation? Of course they have. How could they not, given their scales? The degree to which one choice or another has contributed to this situation is essentially irrelevant at this point.

To me, given the dominion we exercise over the other life forms and affairs of this planet, and given the amount of impact the human footprint has on the condition of the planet, we must also now more fully accept our great shared responsibility
for stewardship of the planet and all its inhabitants. The planet can no longer exist first and foremost to serve us, with our insatiable hunger for consumption and immediate personal gratification and our abhorrence of the least bit of personal discomfort or sacrifice, or relatively soon none of us will remain in existence. We must now exist to serve the planet. And we have to start there, standing together on the common ground of commitment to that perspective, before any of these other discussions can do anything but drive deeper wedges between us at a time when we need to be uniting as one global family.

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Once past that milestone, "what can we do about it?" becomes the central question, after we've all agreed we want and need to do something about any of these major changes and once we've come to see that these are global, not national, issues, and they'll require coordinated global responses from all of us acting together.

The whole 'us vs. them' mindset must be transcended, especially when it's devolved to the remarkably juvenile level that it has with respect to our own country's political environment. I think that as a country we can start by really challenging that and overcoming it so that we can begin to take effective action together. Then I'd suggest we also apply that change to how we view other countries, and stop waiting for smaller, poorer nations who have contributed the least to the issues to take the lead in making changes to address those issues. We as a nation can also commit to ending our exploitation and domination of those less devleoped nations in all the ways that we historically have in service of our own self-interest, economically, militarily, and politically,. And we can all stop living from the mindset that growth for the sake of growth is the ultimate purpose and goal of all life and must remain the bottom line driver for all nations. I saw a great quote by Edward Abbey the other day - "Growth for the sake of growth is the ideology of the cancer cell."  The fact that we in this country have lived from that mindset for so long, and are finally becoming more aware of the cost of doing so, doesn't mean that we and other nations can't now learn from that and shift to a more sustainable and more highly evolved way of being.

And we can, and indeed must, begin to take personal responsibility and action as individuals first and foremost. Maybe retrofitting one's home to full solar power isn't economically feasible for most of us now. But we can commit to consistently doing the little things first, like recycling and reusing all that we can, attending local discussion forums to explore local ways of making positive change together, transcending old rigid political ideologies in favor of supporting candidates and ideas that we believe will act in the greater good to address these issues effectively, and learning to live a life of service to others much more consciously and fully in our own lives. And as we do these things, the change we seek and need will begin within each of us, it will develop in others too and solidify locally, it will affect things more regionally, then nationally, and then globally. It has to start with personal transformation and commitment though I think. And as others have argued, I too think faith is hugely important, but faith without action is just a way of trying to relieve ourselves of any personal responsibility or internal conflict over our part in perpetuating the issues.

Finally, I think whether we act or not, whether we end up on the extinction list too or not, the universe will continue onward, with or without us humans. But we are the only beings, on this planet anyway, who have the power to consciously shape our own evolution and that of the planet as a whole. And with that unique gift and power I think we have a tremendous opportunity to further our own individual and collective development if we choose to actively face the challenges before us now. Or we can choose to sit back and assume that somehow it'll all work out and basically do nothing. But what a profound waste that would be of this tremendous opportunity.

Leia Mais…

February 15, 2012

It's Scientific

Check out this article in the Atlantic magazine (it's a short article) that relates a sense of connectedness to well-being and longevity...



Leia Mais…

January 10, 2012

When Words Get In The Way


My dear precious boy Bogey passed on to the next stage of his existence this past Friday. He was an amazing, wonderful partner and friend and I miss him greatly.  I've written elsewhere about him and our time together; what I want to write about here is a lesson he helped me learn about true connectedness in the time leading up to his passing.

For years while we were together I'd talk to him about all kinds of things.  Of course he didn't understand most of the words (but he was very clear about the meanings of "treat" and "walk" and "ride").  But somehow it felt important that they all be said, as a means of helping to reinforce the connection between us.  Maybe in that sense they were more meaningful to me than they were to him, but I think they helped let him know he was important to me and that I cared about him and about our relationship enough to focus on him and communicate with him.

As the end drew near for our time together, I found myself pressing more and more to find just the right words to try and tell him how special he'd always been to me, how we'd meet up again someday on a trail by a lake full of ducks, how he'd always be in my heart.  What I think I was trying to do was to make as certain as I could that our connection was fortified as much as possible, so that nothing would break it as he crossed the threshold he was facing.  The more I tried to find all the right words though, the more I sensed my frustration and concern mounting that maybe I should try to say it all better, or more often, or in some different way, or that maybe I was forgetting to say something important.

Then one night just a couple of days before his passing, he stumbled into the family room where I was lying on the floor and lay down next to me, his eyes looking directly into mine.  And in that moment I felt him say, without making a sound, everything I'd been so clumsily trying to put into words.  I felt like he was letting me know that he knew, and that it was all okay.  Whatever happened, the love and the bond between us would remain. 

We use words in life to convey thoughts and express emotions, as one way of connecting our minds and hearts.  But ultimately we are all already connected, and there comes a point where words are just no longer necessary and even become distractions from that reality.  The connection of the heart that we all share deep down needs no words to establish or maintain it when we strip away all the things that make us feel separate and we return to our essence.  That connection is already and always perfect and whole without any words or other devices required on our part.

With attention and effort, we can choose to live consciously from that place of awareness of our oneness with all and enjoy a deep, rich sense of connection throughout our lives.  And anytime we forget that and get all caught up being egos exchanging words and feeling separate from each other, we need only look to our dogs to remind us of who we really are and what really matters in life. 

Leia Mais…

January 4, 2012

A World Once Hidden

This video pretty much says it all...

Welcome to a world once hidden from you

Enjoy and embrace!

Leia Mais…

January 2, 2012

Daily Word

Today's Daily Word (from www.dailyword.com) speaks from an awareness of our interconnectedness and how that awareness guides our interactions as we participate in community with each other.

Community
 
I am a beneficial presence in my community.
 
I am often part of a group - my family, colleagues at work, fellow passengers on a plane or subway, or neighbors at the local store. In every situation, I create community as I share and seek to discover the common threads that weave us together. 

I commit to being a beneficial presence in my community. I make connections and demonstrate the qualities I wish to experience. When I see love, I reflect it back. When I see sadness or anger, I embrace the individuals with compassion. When I see conflict or confusion, I center myself in the calm peace of God within so that I may be divinely guided to the right words and actions. My community is uplifted as I act with peace and love.

I think this is a great perspective to start the new year with. I'm grateful for every member of our community of humanity, for the awareness of our interconnection, and for the opportunity to live in loving service to all.  In this new year, may we all embrace the awareness that We Are All One and respond with love and compassion to this awareness in each of our interactions.

Leia Mais…

June 5, 2011

Lesson from a Dying Kitten

This has been a terrible day for me. I started the day in a major conflict with my girlfriend, one that resulted in a great degree of distancing and disillusionment and uncertainty about our future together. I think it's safe to say both of us are suffering the pain of great heartache, confusion, and a sense of a breach of a deep connection tonight.

Then tonight I went to dinner with an old friend who's going through a very painful and bitter divorce. The suffering experienced not only by herself but also by her children, family, and others affected is also great, and sure to be prolonged due to the contentious and complicated nature of their situation.

In between those two events I was driving into town this afternoon when I passed an object on the freeway on-ramp which at first looked like a small bag blowing in the wind. Just as I passed it I saw that it was actually a badly injured kitten, shaking and contorting from the effects of its injuries. By the time I could circle back around, pull to the side of the road, and wait for traffic to clear enough that I could run out there and move it from the roadway, it had stopped moving. As fate would have it, there was an emergency veterinary hospital right there within 100 yards of where it was hit. So I ran over there with the kitten, hoping against hope that there was something that could be done for it yet. But by the time I got inside with it, the kitten had died.

I don't know if it died while I was holding it or sometime before. But I do know that regardless of when that was, the kitten managed to teach me a very valuable lesson in our brief time together.

Much had been said about the death of Jack Kevorkian this week, the doctor who performed assisted suicides on individuals in Oregon until being jailed for it. The kitten taught me that all the arguing and finger-pointing and judgmentalism that has marked the conversation about that since the doctor's death means nothing when the moment of truth and action arrives. The kitten taught me that no matter how much I may think about it or argue one way or another about some scenario, there's no way to know until I'm actually in any given situation what life/spirit/God/love will lead me to do if I allow myself the freedom to open up to that voice and let it guide me. With the kitten, I didn't stop to think about whether running out into traffic was safe or legal or what I was or wasn't allowed to do in response to the situation; I just wanted to help ease its suffering however I could.

Throughout the day, I had many choices to make regarding how to respond to suffering. No amount of debating a bunch of what-if scenarios beforehand, and no amount of legislated required responses or limitations, would have mattered in any of these situations, at least not for me. My heart told me how to respond in each case, and I tried to be wise enough to listen and follow its lead.

We're all in this together - all us humans, all the animals, the plants, the planet, everything and everyone, and in every moment there is suffering to be found all around and often within us. For those who want to, let them have their debates and establish their set of canned criteria by which they then take action or not in any particular situation. But for the rest of us, I think each instance of suffering we observe or endure is a call to a greater level of spiritual awareness and to the development and exercising of ever-deepening levels of empathy and compassion for each other. If we wish to be truly prepared to respond to suffering in any situation, I believe our most productive effort will lie not in debate about legalities or philosophies; it will lie in expanding our awareness of our interconnectedness and in deepening our capacity for empathy so that we can face and embrace the suffering we encounter with great wisdom and compassion. Our goal shouldn't be a society in which the central question in response to suffering is "what am I allowed to do?" or worse, "what am I obligated to do?" but instead, "how can I help?" with the answer coming from within, based on compassion and a sense of our oneness with each other and with all things.

Leia Mais…

April 23, 2011

I Am

There are so many people talking about oneness and the interconnection of all much more eloquently and creatively than I am here.  Go see this movie and you'll see one example of this.




I think the important thing though is that more and more people are waking up to this awareness and are openly and actively promoting it.  And when that number gets large enough and we reach a tipping point in that awareness, big changes and much healing and growth will happen.

Leia Mais…